Nodal Point of Thought 2024-01-19

I heard about one person who didn't participate when everyone else was playing a game.

They said, "Let's do it." I said, "I don't do that kind of thing."

I said, "Well, let's leave him alone," and the others said, "No, let's leave him alone."

I left one of them alone and we all enjoyed the game together.

Finally, that person who did not participate said, "It still doesn't sound interesting."

I said, "That sounds like 'those grapes must be sour.

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I'm triggering myself and hurting my own self-esteem.

You don't realize it.

For example, if the people who played the game at that time say, "That was fun, let's do it again," the people who said "no" are not invited.

Everyone around you knows you're weak, trying to appear willful and strong.

It's about one person who doesn't participate when everyone else is working on something.

We're all doing something together.

You can join us, too, and we invite you to join us!

And yet there was an uncle who didn't participate and was criticizing them at a distance.

If he'd been in the loop and spoken up, he might have helped others, but he was just mumbling from afar, so he was never used in a useful way.

Afraid to participate?

Are you too afraid to approach a stranger to have an equal conversation with them and are you throwing stones from afar?

And it never occurred to you that the people around you would think that you are a good person?

Fellow of "[I am afraid of not knowing.

For example, if you're in a position where people are asking you questions, you have to say you don't know what you don't know.

Well, some people pretend to understand and call bullshit.

If you don't participate in the event, you won't be in a position to ask questions.

Just tell us what you know.

Avoids the "I don't know."

Uh, "position" is "position."

The story of an uncle who can't ask for advice.

People who act like they want advice without asking for it.

I said, "It's hard to ask people for things."

Why is it so difficult?

To ask is to undermine self-esteem, and if your self-esteem is on the edge, you can't afford to undermine it a little bit, so you're just being stubborn.

If you have enough self-esteem, a decrease to the point of asking for a favor or apologizing can be quickly regained.

The first "who wasn't in the game."

In fact, his self-esteem was on the edge and he couldn't even stand to play the game as an equal and lose?

Did you want to gain self-esteem by being "begged" not to say that and to please join us for your refusal?

As a result, they ignored me, they played games with me, and I got the message, "We don't need you."

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